Don’t Underestimate the Power of Scent to Seduce
The Unassuming Sense
Many of our memories have a smell.
It is a powerful sense that can trigger nostalgia or even déjà vu. I once told that if I wore a certain perfume on a romantic getaway or my honeymoon, then I could return to that memory easily later just by wearing that scent. I tried this. It worked, but I have since realized that specific smells are more difficult to place than generic ones. The cotton vanilla fragrance I put on while in Punta Cana five years ago doesn’t have nearly the effect that my suntan lotion has.
Last winter, I ran was out of body moisturiser and applied the aftersun lotion I use in the summer. Instantly, I was taken back to a time of sun and heat. On another occasion, I changed my shampoo. I had not realized that it was the brand I used when my husband and I first dated until he buried his nose in my hair and gave me ‘that look.’
Do not underestimate the power of scent.
Use it to your benefit.
While getting ready for a romantic evening, perhaps dab on that perfume at the back of the shelf collecting dust. Or ditch the perfume and rub on baby oil or suntan lotion. Close your eyes and breathe in its scent. Where does your mind take you? A place? A time? If you are reminded of fun, youth and freedom, you have found your scent for the night. Don’t overdo it by putting on too much or by applying it too often. It will lose its effect.
Whenever I smell aerosol hairspray, I am reminded of my early twenties and going out dancing. I feel like an episode of Sex and the City and I am instantly in the mood for a little fun. My husband is more than happy to hitch a ride on that little buzz of nostalgia.
While getting ready for a romantic evening, perhaps dab on that perfume at the back of the shelf collecting dust. Or ditch the perfume and rub on baby oil or suntan lotion. Close your eyes and breathe in its scent. Where does your mind take you? A place? A time? If you are reminded of fun, youth, and freedom, you have found your scent for the night. Don’t overdo it by putting on too much or by applying it too often. It will lose its effect.
Whenever I smell aerosol hairspray, I am reminded of my early twenties and going out dancing. I feel like an episode of Sex and the City and I am instantly in the mood for a little fun. My husband is more than happy to hitch a ride on that little buzz of nostalgia.
What I am saying is that smell is the unassuming sense that is easily forgotten until someone is cooking fish. Then see how quickly it is able to cripple a romantic mood. If used correctly, you can enhance your own arousal by tapping into past romantic moments to create new ones.
What did your first apartment smell like? Did you use pot-pourri, incense or candles? Did you use to wear baby oil, body spray or fruit-scented shampoo? It is that simple.
There are smells that turn you on. Find them.
Consider the most erotic time of your life. When you feel sexy, sensual and aroused. What did it smell like?
Beware of this power. Unpleasant odours can just as easily have an adverse effect.
Many nights I do respect his slumber and my need for efficiency and go it alone. I still rely on my sense of smell to heighten the experience. That same perfume, lotion, or candle works for my party of one and sometimes it is my hubby’s shirt on the top of the hamper. Ladies, do not be afraid of taking a scarf or handkerchief into the department store to spritz in with your favorite cologne or fragrance. I bet that old flame that served well carnally smelled great. There is no need to put that scent to waste, tap into it without the drama or commitment. Get lost in the power of scent to heighten your pleasure and reach the ultimate climax. Organs are best when they engage all your senses.
